“Private jets, vacations, parties, photo shoots, black cards,” ticks off Ashley North (girlfriend of Washington Redskins safety Dashon Goldson). “There’s a need to be perfect,” clarifies Barbie Blank (fiancée of Anaheim Ducks defenseman Sheldon Souray). “Everyone’s aspiring to be a wife.” Below that, there’s fiancée, which is also acceptable because at least you have a ring on it.